Hubby has the power to upset me over the silliest thing. I don’t know why and I do try to control my temper, but the smallest thing he does has the power to set me off. And on the other side, he is calm and says nothing. He still gives me a hug and a kiss and leaves me chocolates in my handbag or car to say he loves me. What is it with me?
This morning was the fact that he did not pack my breakfast properly. I always eat at the office so I do not have to rush at home, and I can actually eat without Honeybear interrupting. This morning, for whatever reason, half my breakfast made it to the lunch box. I don’t know where the other half is.
Last night he did not clean up the top of the bin.
I mean really, these things are not the end of the world. Breakfast is going to bother me because I am going to be hungry and I cannot go out to get something. I need my breaks to express milk. I can’t eat my lunch because I have soup for lunch, which is currently frozen still.
I am sure I will survive.
I really do try to control my temper, and I know these things are silly and stupid. If I try to let it go, and let it go, it ends up coming out in one huge explosion, because I have been suppressing it. How does hubby never get angry? It takes quite a bit to get him angry. It looks like Honeybear, has inherited my impatience and quickness to get angry. My one saving grace is that, I get over it just as quickly and then I can move on with my life.
Any tips on how to be a better, less snappy woman? Do not say count to ten, that does not work in the least, even if I remember to do it.