Thursday Hubby has the day off. I asked him whether Honeybear was going to stay home with him or go to daycare. I was really expecting him to say that Honeybear was going to stay home too. I was very surprised to hear him say that Honeybear can go to daycare like normal. He did not even think twice about it.
Hubby is a great Papa. He shows it in his actions. I do not doubt that he loves Honybear any less than I do. It did occur to me once that it would be nice to leave Honeybear at daycare and for me to have a day off. But it was a brief fleeting thought and not something I really want to do. I love cuddling that little body and making him laugh. I do not like leaving him in daycare. Hubby is serious. That is what we are going to do. I want to ask him how can he give up a day with Honeybear? He has never spent more than three hours alone with Honeybear. I know Hubby wants a break. Taking care of a child is exhausting. But a little(ok…a large) piece of me cannot understand.
I feel hurt on behalf of Honeybear.