*Sigh* Hubby and I had another fight yesterday afternoon. I did not even know where this came from or why he had gotten upset in the first place. This was after solving the other one. So anyway I stormed off, I was so upset. I do not like talking when upset, all sorts of things I do not want to say will come out of my mouth. So I took two hours to myself. I bought a magazine, had some coffee and waited until I was past it.
When I decided to talk to Hubby, he was dejected and unhappy and telling me how he has to get some mental help for always forgetting to do stuff( established that this was the possible reason for yesterday’s unhappiness). Ok, I don’t know why he thought I was expecting him to clean up the house. I never said anything. So when I asked if he was having a relaxed day yesterday, he assumed I meant that he had not cleaned up while I was at work. Who knows where these things come from. Anyway we talked and hugged and kissed and laughed at ourselves for getting into a fight over something so stupid. I think we need time away from all the stuff that is stressing us. He has work issues, I have work issues, We both have car issues, and mechanic issues and weird ideas about what the other person is thinking.
Anyway, so we are going to my parents for a week. My Mom is going to cook, we are going to eat and we are going to be tourists. We are going to stop trying to mind-read and take the time to talk to each other. No rushing around and being stressed all the time. Work will have to wait and we have to get back to being just us again. We need to have time alone and time with each other. I have found a hiking club that speaks English so I can actually talk to other people, and stop being anti-social. Hubby will have to learn to write things down so he does not forget and hopefully we are going to learn from this and not fight with each other twice in one week.