My alarm goes off and both my husband and I know its pill time. ( contraceptive pill)….I am really good at taking it and every evening I count how many to make sure I have not forgotten any. The whole time I have only forgotten once and I realized before things got hairy. However, this week I forgot!!!!!! And I can’t remember when!!!!
I have been very broody for a while now, but not broody enough to be stupid. Now I have to wait patiently to see whether or not we have made a little one. I don’t understand how I COULD HAVE MISSED ONE. Both Hubby and I have alarms to remind us. HOW?!
If we are going to have a little one then yes I will be happy and love it and look forward to it and it will satisfy my broodiness…..however I’d be relieved if it was nothing too.
I’ve heard all the stories about how your babies will come whenever and you cannot always control it. But still I would like to try.
Hubby and I talked about what we would do if we found out we were pregnant. He said that termination is an option. I know I could not do it. There is no way I would not have a baby if I was pregnant. He said to me he knows it won’t be a valid option for us, we could not bring ourselves to it, not now anyway.
For a woman to decide to have an abortion must be a difficult thing. To do away with a part of yourself and a part that is maybe not yours to give up. I will not judge any woman either way, whether she decides to terminate or not.
There are all the age old arguments around the topic, but I cannot imagine it being an easy decision or one that you can live comfortably with for the rest of your life. There will always be the times when you remember what you did. And that is how a woman will view it: what I did.
Is it any easier for males?
Now I will wait in anticipation for what may be.